Staying home alone is a step towards independence for children, but you should consider whether your child is prepared for this responsibility. Use the following tips to guide your decision and to prepare your family for this milestone.
Consider if your child is ready to be home alone. Use the following list:
• Does your child show a high level of maturity?
• How old are they? Most children around 10 to 11 years old are able to be home alone for brief periods.
• Is your child comfortable being left alone? Make sure you ask them first.
• Will they be tempted to break any rules you have set?
• Can your child remember and follow important safety rules? How would they respond in an emergency?
Ensure your child knows all important contact information, including how to dial 911, your cell phone number, family members, trusted neighbors, poison control, and the pediatrician. If you have a family pet, consider leaving the number for the veterinarian.
Post contact information details in a visible location, such as on the refrigerator or a bulletin board.
Prepare an emergency supply kit, including a first aid kit, flashlights, and batteries. Practice emergency plans with your child to ensure they know what to do in case of injury, fire, a power outage, or another emergency. Provide your child with a written copy of these plans.
Discuss specific rules with your child before leaving them home alone.
• Is your child allowed to cook on their own? What kitchen tools and appliances are they allowed to use?
• How frequently should your child check in with you?
• Are they allowed to invite friends over? How many and for how long?
• How long are they allowed to use technology, such as playing video games or watching TV?
Safely remove or lock up dangerous items, such as guns, tools, razor blades, scissors, knives, chemicals, and medication. This can help prevent injury and eliminate potential emergency situations.
Before leaving your child alone at home for longer periods of time, try leaving for only a few minutes, such as going to the store or bank. Gradually increase the amount of time, building trust and confidence for both you and the child.
Teach children to lock all doors when they are home by themselves. Children should learn how to turn any alarm systems on and off. Make sure they know to never open the door for strangers, delivery drivers, or service representatives.
Ensure your child knows not to tell anybody they are home alone, whether in person or over the phone. Teach them not to leave home without permission and communication with a trusted adult.
Do you have questions about your child staying home alone safely?
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